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Friday, September 4, 2009

A reminder of life....how a split second can change everything..

Yesterday, the day after I arrived home from Aussie ( i will upload pics after this entry), my Brother in-law had a call from his mum saying that his grandma dah nazak, so he rushed from work head straight to Johor....my sis couldn't follow coz she is heavily pregnant (due next month inshaAllah)...otw at KM 192, he lost control of the car and skidded and the car over turned (terbalik) and langgar the railing kat middle of the highway..railing penetrated through the car and missed my brother by inches...

MashaAllah because airbag came out + he was wearing the seat belt + he made doa before & during the journey, he survived....he called my sis straight away, she called all of us..me and my mum rushed to melaka jasin balai polis...he was waiting there...when i first saw him I nak nangis to see him, but i had to be strong ( all this reminded me of the 2 accidents last year where i lost 2 friends, one of them was one of my closest bestfriend, this 2 accidents made me realise that i should become a better Muslim because life is really not that long, and we never know when our ajal is...)...his eye had bleeding from the impact of the airbag+crash+sunglasses he was wearing....he had scratches here and there...nasib baik the polis at jasin very baik...called tokio marine and the settled the tow truck to bring the car back to KL...while we were at the police station, got a call saying the grandma passed away....from Allah swt we are from and to Allah SWT we return....may Allah SWT forgive all her sins and make her amongst Muslims in Jannah...Ameen

as for us, we rushed back took my brother to damansara specialist...eye specialist checked his eye and neurosurgeon check his brain...alhamdulillah all is good, eye will take a month to heal...brain will take 1 week to settle down ( he feels like nak muntah, dr said because the brain was shaken to much by the overturning of the car))...the only thing is his neck fractured sikit from the impact...so now he is on a neck brace...but inshaAllah all wound will heal...just every now and then, he will feel the pain...

our car was a total lost..memang takda harapan nak repair...
mama looking at the damage,but its more important that my brother is ok..




The only small problem we had was with insurance because the car is under my dads name..but after they called my dad and settled everything, alhamdulillah all good esp because my brother was driving within the speed limit...because of the maximum insurance and that the car is fully paid, all claims inshaAllah will go smoothly...now they have to think of what new car to buy, all of us of course said, just get another japanese car again...
all I can say is I shukur Allah SWT spared his life for my sister, my nephew and future niece coming in October(inshaAllah)..
reminder to everyone, please drive safely, i know its not cool to follow the rules, but it prevents us from accidents...inshaAllah...get maximum insurance and take loan the shortest time u can afford......

19 comments:

wahidayaakub said...

salam. sorry to hear about the news - your bro-in-law's grandma and his accident. but she passed on in Ramadhan - orang-orang 'terpilih' selalunya yang Allah ambik masa Ramadhan ni, insyaAllah :)

and hope your bro-in-law gets well real soon :)

-weDa-

[ Hanie ] said...

takziah bua u sefamily. Kuatkan semangat k. Kereta itu, sgt mengerikan melihatnya. nasib baik abg ipar u selamat

nad nazira said...

salam takziah.alhamdulillah ur brother selamat..takpela..ini pengajaran buat kita semua agar lebih berhati-hati time driving, kan..

sabsabby said...

wahida, Jazakillah khair and hanie+nad..tulah now we can make doa for her..yes DR bagi mc yg lama for him to rest..

hanie. memang sgt mengerikan...nanti i upload gambar masa masih terbalik..masa kat police st. pun police kata, kalau tak nampak driver mmg dia ingat tak selamat

nad, yes indeed its a lesson for everyone esp my family...dulu i drive laju...but since the 2 accidents, i selalu drive kat slow lane dan middle lane je...i selalu marah my dad, brothers and habib because they love driving fast...

Sha Pattinson said...

MasyaAllah ..Sab thank God your brother tak aper2 ..u know what from this incident buatkan i sedar seketika betapa besarnya kuasa Allah ..Alhamdulilah your brother tak apa2 for ur info i've been accident like that a few years ago ...may b Allah beri i peluang untuk mengingati dia lebih ..dan alhamdulilah i takde aper2 ...kejadian2 ini membuatkan i insaf ..syukur alhamdulilah ..and sorry about your family car yang penting abg u selamat ..

sabsabby said...

sha, oh you yourself have been in an accident..mashaAllah everything worked out fine...alhamdulillah my brother is getting so much better now...no more puking motion, just the eye...which if course has at least 4 more weeks to heal inshaALlah...

but it's true, when we go through something like this we always remember Allah SWT more...i know i surely did...

blackrosemilia said...

sab..i am so sorry...takziah..and alhamdulillah your brother is alright...i bet he will fully recover soon with his families love and care...take care of urself too k? miss u!

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Wawa Vtec said...

my condolence to u & ur family.syukur ur bro selamat..

Sabby said...

thank u so much emi and wawa...

emi i miss u too...come back soon...3 more years is a long time...

naddynad said...

salam taziah & sorry to hear about ur BIL news ...Let's pray for his speedy recovery.

me too sab. sgtt takut dgr cite psl accident...

BuTtErFlyInFraMe said...

sorry to hear that..hopefully ur family tabah dgn dugaan ni..its true, life is not so long untuk kita tak mengubah benda yang sepatutnya kita ubah..kan?i pun rasa benda yg sama..& life is too short as well, untuk kita mengenang atau mengeluh apa yg jadi kan? hrp sgt ur family be strong esp ur sis..

dialicious said...

Ya Allah takutnyer i baca rase mcm real sgt.Thank God ur bro is ok.alhamdulillah.hope he will recover soon

beddyboo said...

stay strong dear..

Sabby said...

thank you everyone for all the ucapan...

i just hope everyone reminds everybody to drive safe, esp to our fathers, brothers husbands, bfs..and some girls yg actually drive fast...

alhamdulillah my brother is recovering well..sibuk everyday melayan his 2 year old son..relax sikit for me..hehehe..

anil lutaze said...

OMG....syukur abg ipar u selamt...

mmg...wcmanapon mmg speeding tu sgt bahaya...

takziah utk keluarga abg ipar u

Sabby said...

shukur alhamdulillah...

papaya said...

NAsib you sister tak ikut sekali.
ALhamdulillah your bro-in-law is alright.

I've been there.
November 2007.
Kat fast lane tu, keluar nak check keta yang melanggar kereta depan, but I ended up kene langgar dengan keta lain. PAstu tercampak to the other side of the road. Alhamdulillah ade curb in between that big road.

Resultnye, fractured toes, torn ligamen and tendon plus 40days MC and bog fat tummy ;)

I really thought I was going to die that day.. Sangat2 tak bersedia untuk mati....

Sabby said...

yaya, i didnt know were in a accident....scary kan the feeling..which is why we always have to be a good muslim...inshaAllah when its our time to go, Allah SWT makes us among muslims in syurga...ameen......