My Wedding

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Grooms ring

Salam,

Hari tu i had an email asking about ring for guys.

We went surveying a few shops, at Habib Jewels they only had this material called suasa( thanks to nahwal). People say it still has gold in it, we all pun was was, so we figured might as well stay away....here are some hadith that haramkan the use of gold for men.


Islam has prohibited two kinds of adornment for men, while permitting them to women. These are, first, gold ornaments and, second, clothing made of pure silk. 'All reported that the Prophet (peace be on him) took some silk in his right hand and some gold in his left, declaring, "These two are haram for the males among my followers." (Reported by Ahmad, Abu Daoud, al-Nisai, Ibn Hayyan, and lbn Majah, who reports the additional phrase, "but halal for the females.") 'Umar reported that he heard the Prophet (peace be on him) say, 


The Prophet (peace be on him) once saw a gold ring on a man's hand. He immediately took it from him and threw it down saying, 'Does a person pick up a piece of burning coal and hold it in his hand?' After the Prophet (peace be on him) had left the place, someone asked the man, 'Why do you not pick it up and benefit from it?' He replied, 'No, by Allah! I shall not pick it up after the Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) has thrown it away.' (Reported by Muslim.)


The same prohibition which applies to the gold ring likewise applies to what we observe among conspicuous spenders, i.e., the gold pen, gold watch, gold cigarette case and lighter, gold teeth, etc.


The Prophet (peace be on him), however, permitted men to wear silver rings. On the authority of Ibn'Umar, al-Bukhari reported the former saying, "The Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) wore a silver ring. After him, Abu Bakr and then 'Umar and 'Uthman wore it, until it fell off his finger into the well of Arees." (Reported by al-Bukhari in the chapter on "Clothing" (Al-Libas).) As for other metals such as iron, there are no sound texts prohibiting them. On the contrary, in the Sahih of al-Bukhari we find that the Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) advised a man who wanted to marry a woman to,"Present her with a gift, even if it be ring made of iron.On the basis of this hadith al-Bukhari inferred the permissibility of iron rings.








alright to continue, If we wanted to buy platinum was a bit too expensive, so survery2, last last we found a ring, at Goldheart. The material is called Palladium. Palladium is family with platinumrhodiumrutheniumiridium and osmium. They are called the platinum group metals (PGMs).Palladium is heavy, so it feels solid to wear it. And of course the price, all depends on you hubby ring size, normal price is mmg less that RM1k, kalau saiz besar it can cecah above 1k. and masa we dekat goldheart pun there was byk other material for mens ring, yg mmg takda gold in it.They also have another interesting material called Platim (platinum +steerling), its worth to take a look as the price is between RM 3xx till RM 1xxx (information credits to TheBubblyMe)

. The ring looked something very similar to this.

14 comments:

ZARA said...

Just posted an entry the other day about this. initially wanted to buy silver or titanium for him, mom against the silver and suggested platinum.

Platinum mahal and titanium pulak tak tau mana nak carik

since u mention palladium, maybe i'll opt for it.

thanks Sab!

My Journey said...

zara dear, hehe..jazakallah...dalam byk2 kedai we pergi, i think mmg goldheard, had the most ring for guys in different2 material..all the best yeah..

TheBubblyMe said...

Salam Sab... =) we bought his ris at GoldHeart! there's new product.. Platim = Platinum + Sterling. Price range Rm3++ - RM1+++. and like you said definitely no gold inside. =)

NahWaL said...

hai sab. is it suasa or sausa? confused kejap. :). thanks for the info! i like men in simple band. and it costs less hahaha

My Journey said...

oh yes yes, we saw that too... i pergi goldheart mmg nak cari platim. last last beli palladium, sbb its the only one yg he muat, and we tak payah resize...

you know what habibs jari is larger than normal, semua tak muat..and i tak suka beli ring yg kena resize..hehee...

My Journey said...

nahwal, i'm really not so sure, i tried to find it online but i tak jumpa. please correct me if i'm wrong, nanti i boleh edit the entry...thanks dear...

NahWaL said...

i think its suasa, cause suasa has some gold it in and fatwa kata men cannot wear gold kan :). hope im not wrong

My Journey said...

ohh thanks nahwal dear, nanti i will correct it..hehehe...

cik senah said...

tq for sharing yer.. hermm.. dok tgh survey2 gak cincin utk bakal suami.. hehe..

ermm.. maaf la nak tanya.. kedai Goldheart ni tang mana ekk..? byk cawangan dak..?

p/s : cik senah asal dari Kedah.. tak pandai sgt "merayau" sekitar KL nie.. hehe..

papaYA said...

Different case for my husband, jari dia is about the same size as mine, jadi kena kecilkan instead of besarkan >_<

It's suasa. Click hereto read on the hukum. Nabi pakai perak. Ikut sunnah Nabi dapat pahala :)

Cincin silver kat Kota Gede, Jogja, cantik2 sangat n amatlah murah.

cik yaya said...

sab, we bought our ring (during E-day) kt Goldheart jgk. i would say YES for their service compare to tomei.*blurghh, balik rmh my FSIL terus call hq Tomei complain

kay kamal said...

i bought my bakal hubby nye wedding band rhodium alloy with platinum coating...w diamonds..

my Q..laki muslim bole pakai diamonds,kan? no prohibition as such aite?

i pnah yakin skali..then another B2B kate takle pulak i da kliru..

tx,sab!

Moose said...

we went to goldheart in midvalley last month. but somehow we're not convince by the lack of knowledge of their SA. and my fiance ckp platim tu macam ringan and not as sturdy as platinum tapi no doubt the price memang murah. design pun cantik jugak.

kay kamal: men can wear diamond sebab diamond is just a gem. so takde masalah.

si kecil said...

sab..thanks so much for this info.. goldhear here we come!