My Wedding

Showing posts with label My wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label My wedding. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Wedding attire for rent (updated)

salam girls,

Both my baju is available for rental now

Kalau nak rent veil sahaja pun boleh.

Tapi sewa as is k..unfortunately I'm not encouraging alterations.....

measurements suits for body size between

Bust - 33-36inch
waist-24-27inch
hip-36-39inch

suitable for height between 154-165cm

price (can be rented separately or together)
Baju- RM xxx
Veil- RM 1xx

By rizman ruzaini

By Man (Kajang)





siapa yg minat to sewa , kindly e-mail me sabsabby22@gmail.com

sewa for 7 days only ( additional cost will be charge for extensions)

wassalam,

sabby

p/s: terms and condition applied..hehehe...

* special discount for those staying in klang valley

Saturday, December 4, 2010

Emma k chocolates

One of the vendor that i belum mention regarding my wedding is Emma K.

we hired them to do our wedding favors for me and my sisters wedding reception..MashaAllah i can say i was very very happy with their service. Trust me girls, they were very professional. at first I went to their butique at Bangsar village 2 to inquire about the chocolates and quotation. and then they said come back 1 month before our wedding.

so 2 months(because i rasa 1 month last minute sgt) before the wedding, i went to bangsar village 2, tgk2 the kedai dah tutup...OMG we really panicked because i really didn't have plan B. we went home went straight to the website, and called them. and then the Kakak said, ohh we have moved to empire at subang jaya but their main office is still in damansara perdana. so we went to damansara perdana office, choose our design and within 10 mins they gave me a mock up design of the wrapper and the thank you tag that i wanted. yes, believe me when i say they are very professional mashaAllah. and balik showed my parents, they were happy, terus we paid booking fee. 

and true enough as they promised, 1 week before the wedding day, the chocolates dah siap.

now most of you must be worried about price right?? trust me it's not as mahal as everyone think it is.... they charge me RM 3.xx for one chocolate bar. Chocolate is by cadbury, + custom made thank you tag and emma k elegant wrapper design. 

sadly our photographer tak ambil the pictures of the wedding favors :( tsk tsk...and by 3pm all the chocolates dah habis, all the guests yang datang lambat semua tak dapat. we pun miscalculated, we expected 800 guests, but 1200 came (nasib baik the hotel had enough food), alhamdulillah.



The ones we ordered was something similar to this but it was in pink and pale gold ribbon


wassalam,

sabby

Friday, September 3, 2010

By Lova....

I promised the last time i will update the makeup pictures once its ready...hehehe..alhamdulillah we got our official wedding reception photos from our mashaAllah amazing photographers Shutterspeak by zaidan and suhaimi....Of course sure you all pelik why we tak hire Daniel zain, because we planned this reception last minute sikit, so Daniel was already booked on the 3rd and 4th July, so Daneil himself recommended Shutterspeak, and mashaAllah i'm so glad they did an amazing job...

The last makeup entry was byk words no photos...this time i will let the pictures do all the talking..hehehe...

the final product...

Many2 readers email me to ask about no hp lova...please please please visit her blog. Her hp number and contact info is all there...


p/s: so sorry i haven't been updating my blog, i havnet been feeling well...

Thursday, July 29, 2010

on makeup artist...

salam everyone,

I know i haven't been the best at updating my blog,  alhamdulillah i just recovered from the worst food poisoning  I have ever gotten....tersuk sgt, sampai i had fever....

anyway also it donesn't help that my laptop still rosak, heish i haven't had the time to reformat my PC...

ok todays topic is on makeup artist...( sadly i have not receive any official pictures, so all pictures will only be uploaded once i dah dapat the gambar, i will update this post)

during our functions, we manage to work with 4 makeup artist, which is Sue cantik, Lova, Ayang kamel and A...ok...

now lets start with the good news,

MY untimate favourite makeup is def by faarrrr by LOVA...mmg me and my sis paling suka makeup by lova...she has this natural way of doing our face, just as how i want my makeup to be....so natural yet beautiful..lova's foundation is golden, so my skin macam had a glow, the whole day tak crack and the best part, it tak nampak putih on digital camera..i love it sooooo much, very simple but beautiful mashaAllah....so yes if anybody asks which makeup i love most, it has to be LOVA...i quote what habib said " from now on only Lova can makeup your face, no one else"..

sue cantik, was very nice, but my biggest issue is because sue is a man, and the foundation is tebal sikit, so my foundation cracked during the function, my face looked dry..tapi in the picture and video, mmg tak nampak...so i still love the makeup....

ok as for ayang and kak A....

ayang, mashaAllah is the nicest makeup artist among all...so lembut, while we were getting ready(imagine there was 4 orang kot tgh makeup sekali) ayang was very sweet to  let us pinjam his eyeliner....ohh he is so baik....tapi is not that I didn't like ayangs makeup,  i just feel that, it didn't suit our kind of face itu je...but i have to say, ayang is very very baik...

lastly ..kak A( i cannot name her sbb this is a bad review) was friendly, we were talking quite byk masa she buat makeup...so i explained to kak A, i only like 1 type of makeup...heavy eyes but nude lipstick and blusher...but sadly, she didn't give me that type of makeup..when i saw myself at the miror, my lipstick sgt merah, and blusher sgt merah..and when i said, terang sgt, she was a bit upset, and cakap, "tak dik nanti kat camera nampak natural"...you see itu yang buat a marah, sebab sue cantik and lova, did a very natural nude look, and takde pun nampak pudar on camera

sampai I open my pictures, to show how sue and lova mekup my face...stress sgt masa ni..lepas tu, i cakap nak light lagi colour dia....she pun sampai 3 kali tukar colour and sindir me and said, kalau colour macam ni, macam tak pakai lipstick and warna lagi pudar dari my own lips...but for me, that is what I want...

But masa i saw gmabr from the pictures he took,  daniel zain tunjuk sikit, the makeup ok masa malam tu, tapi gambar siang semua mmg nampak my blusher and lipstick terang....and my foundation colour macam grey sikit(takda glow). I'm also upset because i bayar RM 750 (lagi mahal dari lova and ayang kamel), and i saw some product makeup yang murah.....i feel cheated esp on the foundation that is why my foundation looks grey...i'm very particular about cheap makeup, sebab i have sensitive skin...cheap makeup product uses cheap chemicals...but the best part is after everything she sms me to minta maaf and said hoped i liked the makeup...walaupun ada problem sikit, all in all it was ok....it was my mistake jugak, I pun nak tukar her trademark style, of course she pun tak happy...

for lova and sue cantik, mmg i have seen bride lain and i suka the style...tapi the other 2 makeup artist tu, mmg i tak minat sgt, esp the colour of the foundation..I am very particular with the colour of the foundation....i paling tak suka when the foundation turns grey or white...tak nampak seri....
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My advice to everyone, find a makeup artist yang u suka, from what you  see at other brides...


p/s: what is cantik and beautiful for me, might be too simple or tak cantik for others...please take note that this is a personal review of my personal taste...

Monday, July 19, 2010

My lovely tandang pelamin...

salam everyone...

from now on my update and my email replies are going to be slow, sebab i really don't know why, my computer tak boleh excess gmail and blogpsot at all...yang pelik ebsite yg lain all boleh...gmail dgn blogspot je yang tak boleh.heish, i really don't understand...

Today i want to give teaser on my very beautiful pelamin masa tandang..sgt cantik kan the ferry lights...kak wanie made this very very simple pelamin jadi sgt sgt sgt cantik...kitorg pun tak percaya bila pelamin dah siap and lampu dah pasang...

oh kak wanie thank you so much for everything...

oh so you girls out there, if you all are still looking for a wedding decorator, please please consider kerja kahwin...


p/s: more updates will come inshaAllah, once daniel zain passes the official wedding photos, InshaAllah...

Thursday, July 15, 2010

henna for reception



I shall start my first entry with our lovely henna....oh this time henna was amazing, and i was VERY happy with the end results...if I had to recommend , i would def say this time henna is a lot better than my nikah hari tu...

amrina dear, thank you sooo much....btw, all this pictures were taken by amrina's hubby...so credits to him...hehehe...

 hubby helping me choose a design
amrina, getting ready the cone...
henna in the making
i did matching ones for my feet
the final results...its soooo kemas and fine kan...ohh i love it soo much
For my sister she choose something more grand of course, because this is her nikah...very very unique the design...mashaAllah...
matching set on the kaki...macam tak percaya kan, how neat it is...

trust me i have done henna in a loooot of places..this is one of the paling kemas i have ever gotten...

for my tandang amrina came over to the house again to top up, amrina wanted to come hari khamis, but on Thursday my henna was still terang and clear..so on Friday tu, i scrubbed the henna from my hand from reception on my side and last minute mintak tolong if she can come Saturday morning... but this time we had to use instant henna...the sayang part is because it was intant henna, it kembang on my skin, so it didn't look fine...but that was not amrina's fault, it was the henna yang kembang..

bottom line is, if in the future anybody asks me about henna...amrina, she is the girl to go to...inshaAllah...

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

oh finally....

alhamdulillah, finally i can get in blogspot...

i dont know why, my laptop cannot masuk blogspot and my gmail...ohhhh it has been very very frustrating...so sorry for all the emails that i havent replied

but facebook boleh..so pelik i dont understand....now i have to pinjam my mums laptop...hehhee...

ok, alhamdulillah, mashaAllah..all the 4 events went well...it was extreamly tiring, but it was all worth it mashaAllah....oh and i cannot wait to upload entries on all the planning, and how everything went...

i shall post a teaser picture of my tandang at habib's side...because that is the only picture we got on the pelamin...hahha, believe it or not, we all tak byk gambar ourselves hopefully the photographer will pass our pictures soon...ohh i can't wait..



on if the question  I got was, " did you feel like a bride, even after being married for 4 months +??"

my answer is absolutely yes..mashaAllah...

and the BIGGEST question i got was, OMG are you pregnant????


and answer to that is, takda rezeki lagi....Allah swt knows best..I just gained weight that is all......oh the amount of poeple yg tanya if i was pregnant...penat nak jawab....

oh please wait for my next entries yeah..

wassalam,

sabby

p/s: yes this is the baju tht i did the beadings my self...oh i have a major story behind this baju, the amount of drama it gave me till the last minute...

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

wedding corsages

Salam,

Just wanted to share our idea for the corsages that we made during my nikah...we decided to add a little sense of humor, since yg datang is mostly family and my friends...so it was a very relaxed function for my parents...

being in a large family alhamdulillah, many gets confused with who is who.. esp us sisters, because some say we all look similar..hehee..

2 of my sisters, created this 2 days before my wedding...hehehe..i was a little upset because it was done at the very last minute, but alhamdulllah my sisters, they never disappoint...










well as for my update with the reception next week..its has been quite crazy...we just found out yesterday the hall we are doing it in, us undergoing a major renovation at the entrance..urgh..sedih nya..and they never informed us...so now, the hall is going to have a very messy and ugly entrance...all the hall people can do is, on the wedding day, they will clear a path for the guests to masuk...how uncomfortable...

mum says, we must be positive...at every wedding of course things will go wrong..and what will change it is our attitude towards it....I'm just worried, if the guests can't find the way in..or if they feel very uncomfortable because of the construction around...

other than that, alhamdulillah everything is ok...at first i thought having a reception after 4 months is like whatever lah...i've already had my wedding......but just 10 days before, now i feel that my excitement is building..hehehe...mashaAllah...i'm so excited being a bride all ever again (to the same guy)..hehehe...oh I'm so excited....

just make doa all the 4 functions goes pleasantly...ameen ya Rabbal A'lameen...




Friday, June 4, 2010

The best caterer....


It been more than 3 days now, since my cousins passing....We are no longer allowed to mourn...


Hadith - Bukhari 2:369, Narrated Muhammad bin Sirin 
One of the sons of Um 'Atiyya died, and when it was the third day she asked for a yellow perfume and put it over her body, and said, "We were forbidden to mourn for more than three days except for our husbands."

Hadith - Bukhari 7:254, Narrated Um 'Atiyya  
We were forbidden to mourn for more than three days for a dead person, except for a husband, for whom a wife should mourn for four months and ten days (while in the mourning period) ......

Let's talk about my caterer during my wedding day....We we first introduce to them during a wedding of a family friend...oh Subhanallah...the food was soo sedap...My parents came back to the wedding just so they can eat the food again...I stayed sampai habis, so that we can tapau food home...

This was about 3 years ago.....and i had told myself, ok this is the caterer i want for my wedding...Sajian D Hidang....


Alhamdulillah, i got them, food was sedap...they were clean..and everything was as they promised...they were so easy to work with mashaAllah...i fully recommended...



the blueberry cheese tart, was one of my fav..and I'm so glad, all the food we ordered habis...we only had to bring back home, ada sikit samosa and popiah...the rest alhamdulillah habis...



website in english:


Lot 9-2, 2nd Floor,
Shah Alam Umno Trade Center,
Persiaran Damai, Section 11,
40100 Shah Alam,
Selangor Darul Ehsan,
Tel : 03-55108776 / 9776
Fax : 03-55114016

Terus hubungi,  Mashadi 019-2317733, Marsidah 019-2727733, Rohani 019-3328484

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Grooms ring

Salam,

Hari tu i had an email asking about ring for guys.

We went surveying a few shops, at Habib Jewels they only had this material called suasa( thanks to nahwal). People say it still has gold in it, we all pun was was, so we figured might as well stay away....here are some hadith that haramkan the use of gold for men.


Islam has prohibited two kinds of adornment for men, while permitting them to women. These are, first, gold ornaments and, second, clothing made of pure silk. 'All reported that the Prophet (peace be on him) took some silk in his right hand and some gold in his left, declaring, "These two are haram for the males among my followers." (Reported by Ahmad, Abu Daoud, al-Nisai, Ibn Hayyan, and lbn Majah, who reports the additional phrase, "but halal for the females.") 'Umar reported that he heard the Prophet (peace be on him) say, 


The Prophet (peace be on him) once saw a gold ring on a man's hand. He immediately took it from him and threw it down saying, 'Does a person pick up a piece of burning coal and hold it in his hand?' After the Prophet (peace be on him) had left the place, someone asked the man, 'Why do you not pick it up and benefit from it?' He replied, 'No, by Allah! I shall not pick it up after the Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) has thrown it away.' (Reported by Muslim.)


The same prohibition which applies to the gold ring likewise applies to what we observe among conspicuous spenders, i.e., the gold pen, gold watch, gold cigarette case and lighter, gold teeth, etc.


The Prophet (peace be on him), however, permitted men to wear silver rings. On the authority of Ibn'Umar, al-Bukhari reported the former saying, "The Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) wore a silver ring. After him, Abu Bakr and then 'Umar and 'Uthman wore it, until it fell off his finger into the well of Arees." (Reported by al-Bukhari in the chapter on "Clothing" (Al-Libas).) As for other metals such as iron, there are no sound texts prohibiting them. On the contrary, in the Sahih of al-Bukhari we find that the Messenger of Allah (peace be on him) advised a man who wanted to marry a woman to,"Present her with a gift, even if it be ring made of iron.On the basis of this hadith al-Bukhari inferred the permissibility of iron rings.








alright to continue, If we wanted to buy platinum was a bit too expensive, so survery2, last last we found a ring, at Goldheart. The material is called Palladium. Palladium is family with platinumrhodiumrutheniumiridium and osmium. They are called the platinum group metals (PGMs).Palladium is heavy, so it feels solid to wear it. And of course the price, all depends on you hubby ring size, normal price is mmg less that RM1k, kalau saiz besar it can cecah above 1k. and masa we dekat goldheart pun there was byk other material for mens ring, yg mmg takda gold in it.They also have another interesting material called Platim (platinum +steerling), its worth to take a look as the price is between RM 3xx till RM 1xxx (information credits to TheBubblyMe)

. The ring looked something very similar to this.

Thursday, May 20, 2010

Wedding cheats

Ok hari tu, i janji to do a post on how i saved money for my wedding, so i can have spare for my reception...

i shall go straight to the point.

1) wedding at dewan komuniti

sewa dewan komuniti is always less then RM 2k, meaning if you rent 1 hari everyone boleh selesa dalam dewan. kalau buat dekat rumah, mmg best (our house depan main road, mmg confirm tak boleh tutup jalan), tapi cost untuk canopy can be mahal. for RM 2000 boleh dapat 4 khemah je maximum. That is why, i say if buat wedding at dewan komuniti can be very money saving, and the best part, dapat aircond sekali.

2) tables and chairs

to maximise tables and chairs, i used square tables instead of round. and sewa meja square lagi murah dari meja bulat. For myself, i mmg prefer square table, i have never liked meja bulat, sbb limit dia either 8 or 10 orang..sbb my family besar, kalau the whole family pergi wedding/makan2, family kitorang sure kena seperate meja, and i hate that. If square table, all of us can sit together.

Besides that, i didn't use any chair ribbon, because my decorator mentioned that chair ribbon, is unnecessary,  sbb tak perlu sangat pun for deco. so i actually save a few hundered sbb tak guna chair ribbons. my decorator mentioned, keep the chairs all white nanti nampak kemas and bersih...sebab he said kalau guna plastic chairs, nanti ribbon senang jatuh, senget, keromot, and nanti the whole place nampak tak kemas


3) decor

now of course, masa awal2, tak terfikir langsung nak buat gazebo tgh2 hall.. i wanted to do the deco on the stage, sbb tinggi nanti ramai orang nampak. But my mum suggested buat tgh2 dewan, buat platform so boleh duduk to nikah. My decorator suka the idea sbb, dapat save money, tak payah buat laluan and everything, lepas tu, kalau buat deco tgh dewan  everyone akan concetrate kat tgh dewan sahaja, plus he said ramai orang selalu segan nak naik pelamin utk ambil gambar sebab kat atas pentas, end up gambar orang selalu ambil kat laluan/or gerbang masuk je. so he said, kalau buat tgh2 dewan orang tak malu sangat nak pergi pelamin ambil gambar.

lepas tu, i remembered ayat2 cinta and loved the idea nikah tgh dewan. after that we came up with the idea, of building a gazebo tgh tgh dewan. dcorator cakap, stage tak payah guna, then dewan tak nampak kosong, sbb its a nikah, guest tak ramai macam kenduri walimah..

and i tanya pulak pasal centrepiece, he said tak payah pun takpa but if nak, just buat kecil2 pun ok....sbb org tak pandang sangat meja, poeple will just concentrate on the gazebo.
4) food

i think this is paling penting. of course ramai suka buat wedding yg hidang guna dome. But kalau buat buffet, boleh save half the harga, Kalau buffet, boleh dapat biasa from RM 15/person. so kalau invite 300 orang, baru RM 4500 ribu.. the best part kalau buat at dewan komuniti, you boleh panggil mana2 caterer, dia takda caterer yg u mesti guna..alhamdulillah...

5) centrepiece

ok, for centrepiece, i put chocolate dates, with small flower posy and wedding favour. Jadi with all this, meja square panjang2 tu dah tak nampak kosong alhamdulillah. chocolate dates, i just put on doily paper atas cardboard keras, yg u boleh beli mana2 supermarket and tak mahal. centrepiece, i mintak Merisik gallery tolong buatkan, ohh i suka sgt the flower combo, matching with my pink deco and eustoma hand bouquet.

final results for table deco

6) hantaran

saving money on hantaran, gave us a lot more money to be spent elsewhere like our honeymoon...

7) photographer

"spend within your means" this is something yg both my parents remind us all the time...for photographer the biggest way to save is to take a package only with soft copy, tak masuk album, because album is always a huge portion of the payment. and then after the wedding you can custom your own album according to your taste, there are some easy software available nowadays like photobook.or you can print out pictures in different sizes, and keep them in the wedding album.

but like i mentioned, this is only suitable for those who are looking to save money...For those with unlimited budget, i think all this rules does not apply...hheehhe

Thats all for now, if ada any questions, do email me, i will be more than happy to help, inshaAllah.

wassalam, 

sabby

Saturday, May 8, 2010

The change of plans (part 2)


So now from my previous post, i dah explain how my nikah became more like a reception that nikah..because it was memang suppose to be my reception.

The next decision that we had to make was  how to nikah in a hall, but keep the number small. U see when my sis nikah in the hall terus sambung reception, so it was not a problem. at this point my nikah was only for 200 poeple. 100 for habibs family and 100 for my family...

But the problem is, dewan tu besar, it fits paling sikit that will look cantik is 28 tables..that is 280 people kan..so after weighing our options, I decided, why not for nikah invite all my friends and reception in July, concentrate on my parents friends only..so we will proceed with small reception of 400-500 pax in July

ok, i ordered cards and send sms and facebook msg to all my friends to ajak for my "reception" after my nikah...this was 2 months before the wedding..i had to invite all my friends because i can't invite them for my reeption in july because the hall that we booked for july reception max boleh 450 pax only

so kiranya masa ni the plan is family datang for nikah at 11am, and friends datang from 12pm to 2pm for makan2 for all of my friends...

but during this time,  i punyalah pujuk my sis to kahwin together in July..sebab they were planning to do their wedding either late December 2010 or early 2011...pujuk punya pujuk..finally my sis agreed to kahwin sekali in July...so instead of having a small reception for my parents friend sahaja.we agreed on, my sis nikah 1 day before the reception. and reception ajak everyone..then orang tak payah datang bnyk kali..yelah nanti everybody muak, my family je ada byk function nak kena pergi..n we tak buat during school hols so susah for families to travel far...

So in Jan 2010, my sis go engaged..alhamdulillah..hehehe...ohh i cannot mention how thankful i am to Allah swt, my sis and her fiancée and parents for agreeing to this arrangement.

our july reception kan dewan boleh muat 450 pax only..we all pun decided dari buat sit down might as well do buffet..

since it was Jan 2010, takkan i nak tarik balik my invitations to all my friends, and tell them ohh my reception dah tukar july pulak..dah lah i dah ajak more then 100 people...Jadi we all pun teruskan jugak with all friends coming for my nikah on Feb 2010...and inshaAllah i will ajak everyone again in july..dah since buat buffet..so boleh ajak everyone.....

of course me and my sis have our own dream wedding correct?? so our parents agree that, nikah we the wedding that we want ...my sis pun dapat plan her dream wedding..and then reception. buat just a simple makan2..

so yes girls, that is the answer to every-bodies question...our reception inshaAlah, will be just a simple makan-makan,..it will look nothing like my nikah...dewan pun i tak ambil the decoration package to save money...

alhamdulillah i already had my dream wedding during my nikah, which is a more important date that i want to remember..and my sister will have her dream wedding during her nikah...inshaAllah...

the amount of times we had to change plans..ohh i dah jadi gila for a while...But Allah SWT knows best..and somehow this was the best arrangements for us alhamdulillah...

p/s: after this i will do an entry on how i saved money during my nikah. I received emails tanya how i can spend so much for my nikah...hehehe..its called wedding cheats..believe it or not, most of the advice came from my decorator.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

The change of plans

i received emails sayaing how excited they are to see my reception. They have a theory if my nikah is like then, that what is my reception like??

well let me tell you girls, the story behind my nikah first...

initially when me and habib planned it, it was suppose to be nikah on the 19th feb 2010, at this absolutely beautiful place, dewan masjid saidina omar bukt damansara. Same concept, where we nikah at the stage, while the guests will be seated at the tables, while watching us on the stage. To me that would have been the best arrangements, because even if i was menstruating (red flag) during the nikah its not going to be a problem, sbb the dewan is not part of the tpt solat, but i still get to nikah in a masjid. Tak ke senang macam tu?

this is sample picture of the dewan at masjid bukit damansara. Kerja kahwin did a beautiful decor here, i fell i love, i hired them to be one of my decorator, for one of the 4 events we are having in July 2010 nanti inshaAllah. p/s: dewan ni selesa sampai 250 orang.

And the reception was going to be at Dewan komuniti bukit damansara, the next day. Of course we book dewan ni dulu, baru decide tpt nikah. So May 2009, we paid full for the hall, sbb ada 2 org nak tarikh yg sama. Kalau i tak bayar full, then org lain tu akan ambil my hall..of course i did not want that to happen kan..

tapi dewan ni alhamdulilah price ok, RM 1600 sewa for 1 day.

so i figured since dah book dewan might as well i book everything else..so i pun bayar caterer utk 19hb and 20hb feb. Both caterer yg sama, Sajian D'hidang (oh food dioorg mmg sgt sedap).

dewan kat masjid utk nikah pun sudah book. so bulan ogos 2009, i pun buat my baju semua. Baju putih for nikah, and baju pink utk reception. Also we booked the photographer sekali.

But during the engagement dinner october 2009, atas sebab2 yg tidak dapat dihalang, at the end of the day kita merancang Allah swt yg menentukan, correct? We had a change of plans. There was a request of having our wedding in July instead.

Bincang2 with vendor, they cannot give us refund.... and we cannot move to july pulak because the hall is no longer available. alhamdulillah, masjid boleh cancel, sebab tak bayar lagi.

Nasib baik i took all the same vedor for 19th and 20th, so kiranya the extra deposit i paid semua pergi ke downpaymen/deposit for 20 hb feb,since i have canceled the event on the 19th feb.

 But dewan komuniti if we cancel we loose all the payment that we have done, which is dewan, makeup artist, caterer, photographer. semua pun hilang. Baju je ok coz can simpan no problem.

after byk2 fikir non stop, the only solution i had was to postponed my reception but proceed with nikah. The tricky part is i have to use all my reception vendor utk nikah. Fikir2, we all pun buat keputusan, ok proceed nikah kat dewan komuniti, but reception plan yg lain in july...

so now all the vendor yg sab book utk reception semua dah tukar jadi nikah...

so yes, that is why my nikah became like that, sbb its actually my reception. Even the pink baju was for my reception, tapi sbb the pink theme was utk dewan komuniti tu, i pun pakai je baju reception for nikah.

My white baju nikah, now dah tukar utk reception pulak...

so now what happens to my reception?...hehehhe..


let's wait for part 2, nanti byk sgt writting org malas nak baca kan??

p/s: i so wish i can wear my baju pink for my reception again...hmmm....

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Hantaran







as i have mentioned in this entry, I was absolutely happy with my hantaran. It was so cantik, with the combination of my fav. flowers eustoma and roses.

MG was responsible for the hantaran in the first picture. oh again, i love the flower combination so much.

hantaran from the groom, was made personally by his cousins. I love the dulang for this very much.

Me and hubby decided to make our pertukaran hantaran simple, from me was ring, sejadah, chocolate, cake and a baju melayu

and he gave ring+mas kahwin, telekung+sejadah, cake, fruits, and baju kurung.

yes we indeed exchanged 5 and 5....

I think this was one of the biggest comments i received, this was the cause of many fallout and misunderstanding that i had with families and friends.

But alhamadulillah, in the end, it had all worked out for the best  for us...

I was told that the exchanging, started so kita tak datang rumah tetamu tangan kosong, which is mashaAllah what Rasulullah SAW has reminded us to do, to give gifts and buah tangan to each other within kemampuan..hehehe..

so , in conclusion, no girls, i was not trying to start a new trend or went against our adat, all i did, was i went old school, and back to exchanging gifts as tuan rumah and tetamu. Personal items due to safety reasons, we just exchange personally, also didn't want to worry about expensive things being displayed on the hantaran. Takut sgt hilang.

oh i miss those days, where hantaran was just dulang after dulang of food that we can eat after the wedding...heehe...as a child, it was my fav part.

p/s: do visit http://merisikgallery1.blogspot.com/ for more beautiful hantarans and the absolutely beautiful garden theme pelamin, they did in feb 2010, for amy's wedding.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Wedding shoes

Wedding shoes was one of my pening actualy...sadly, the designer yg buat my baju did not include the kasut as part of the package...and he asked me to top up more money if I wanted matching shoes. The thing about me is , I wanted shoes that I can wear again, and I wanted the same shoes to use for my nikah and reception..so even after mentioning i wanted pink shoes, but after counting the math,i don't need 3 pairs of wedding shoes...i just need 1 pair of a beautiful White shoes..

so off me and one of my bestie went to find shoes at pyramid..we went everywhere, my god i didn't know it was going to be that hard to find shoes, esp above 4 inch heels, yes the other thing that made me so angry is that, the designer made the baju so panjang, that it will only look nice if i wear 4 inch heels and above...after a few hours of searching, finally i found something in Aldo...tried it on...hmm ok lar i thought..i liked it but i didn't love it...It was not so comfy, and i knew i have to pakai the shoes, for hours, so i really was looking for a comfortable white 4 inch heels.. and because my kain chiffon, i must find shoes yg tiada anything on top, takut it will sangkut to my kain and rosak (one of the lessons we learnt from my sisters wedding)

finally we sat down, and discussed...ok which shop that i know has comfortable 4 inch heels...and both of us knew the answer VINCCI...so off we went to padini..dahlah vincci in pyramid is like hidden, we both sesat trying to find it...

and there it was..my dream shoes...i saw it, tried it on...ada of course..i tried on other shoes..but somehow, this pair, clicked with me instantly.hehhee...yes,  I'm serious..i actually felt a connection..plain at the top, but bling at the heels...just what  i was looking for...

and you know the best part is....on the wedding day, true enough,.it did not give me any problems...ohh what a great buy....mum always remind us, find the most value for money things...oh mashaAllah...i love this purchase the most...

and the best part, i can wear it again and again and again, after my july wedding of course.....



p/s: i did not bully my pengapit k, this was a posed picture, saja je, coz so far every wedding of only her close friends of course,  ada picture of my dear bestie doing this for the bride..hehehe..oh its so funny....

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Daniel Zain

Alhamdulillah we got all my nikah pics from Daniel...i'm soooooo happy with it mashaAllah...Somehow everybody and everything looks more beautiful with his camera...hehehe...

I can't wait for him to take more pictures for tandang nanti...hmm for my reception, finally me and sis decided on a photographer, we met a few, but somehow clicked with him well... and call me wierd, but i tend choose my photographer of course based on the pictures they take and also their wives..hahaha..yes the wife....

finally now i can upload more entries on my wedding day..hehehe...

p/s: zain, while we were taking outdoor pics, i remembered about the pose..hehehe..hmmm not entirely the same...but I still love it...

Monday, March 29, 2010

Makeup during nikah


5 years ago, when my sis got married, she took sue for her makeup artist, and my sister looked the most beautiful i have seen her ever..mashaAllah....

so 5 years ago, i knew i wanted to take sue for my makeup as well...so kiranya i planned this even before i met habib himself...its one of those things that has been at the back of my head..after i booked my hall, the first person i called was sue, to book (that time 20th Feb 2010 was suppose to be my reception at the hall..not nikah..I planned 19th Feb to nikah at the Dewan of the Masjid opposite the hall, but as always we can only plan, in the end Allah SWT determines what actually happens)


Many has asked which is better, lova or sue??..well to be honest i can't really compare yet, sbb hari tu lova makeup very simple, for dinner je..nanti by my reception in July inshaAllah i will do a full review on the makeovers...

but the only problem is because sue cantik is indeed a "HE", so i had to cover up during the makeup session, hence it was a bit uncomfortable...so for both my functions in July, i'm taking female makeup artist..hehe..then no need to cover up during makeup..more comfy for me i guess...

wassalam,
sabby

p/s: our dear blogger rockonpink did a very help-full list of makeup artists and price at her blog..click here for link to the list

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Hantaran cake

the other part that i love about my hantaran besides the beautiful deco by MG is my hmm i'm going to call it mini cakes...

Of course when we had cake in mind for hantaran, no one else pops in our head except gateaux-licious .hehehe...

i asked them to surprise me with a pink-ish minicake with cherry blossoms and ribbon...and walaaa-la...this is what i go..mashaAllah it was so pretty...and the cutest part is when the guys asked me "what is this, is it candles?" hehehe..its so funny....

http://gateaux-licious.blogspot.com/

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Nikah concept


I have received a few emails asking about the nikah concept..hehehe so here goes.

and yes girls, i did nikah in a hall....

actually the whole idea came from my sister and mum...during my sisters wedding, instead of nikah separately, she decided to do a nikah at the hall itself, so we had the nikah on the stage, and all the guests we seated comfortably on the chairs at their assigned tables..(please bear in mind, we do not have a house big enough to accommodate a nikah function nor can we blocked the road in front of our house because its a main road, and I didn't nikah in the mosque because i'm scared that I myself won't be able to enter the mosque if I'm menstruating, so with all respect to the Mosque)

her wedding was
11am: nikah
12-4pm: walimah
1pm: ketibaan pengantin
all at the same hall. ketibaan pengantin seems awal and ramai takut hall kosong, the best part is, the hall was already full because of the guests that came for the nikah..

and mashaAllah that concept worked out really well, sbb everyone was comfortable, and could see the nikah very clearly instead of having live feed(which can be rather expensive).and it was so easy for our family to organise it...and the money we saved..mashaAllah.....

so for my nikah, we wanted to continue doing nikah in a hall...which we find the most convenient.

after watching ayat2 cinta, i was like yes, this time i want to do the nikah smack in the middle of the hall..i asked quotation from like 5 different decorators, and some of them tak faham my concept..so i had a lot of trouble finding a suitable one...

finally, we were like why not we just try nas,..

mashaAllah, when i met nas and explained my whole nikah comcept he straight away gave this whole gazebo idea tgh2 hall..i was so happy.finally somebody understood what i wanted...to make things better he said he just met another couple who is also doing a nikah at the hall, which turned out it was someone i knew and she had an amazing all white nikah at the hall as well...
and the best part, because the hall has high ceiling, so the gazebo concept fits just nice..mashaAllah...

so finally that part was settled...

timing for the wedding is,
11am: akad nikah
12-2pm: makan

2nd time nikah in the hall, worked well as well..so for my adik, when she told my mum she wanted to get married, all of us was like..ok lets find a HALL for your nikah..hehehe...

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Nikah pics by Daniel Zain


one of my fav is this picture..mashaAllah .. i love them soo much..all of them...